Often times a person is so afraid of what people will truly say about his/her relationship that it results in not telling people what's really occurring or even hiding whom he/she is dating. Meaning, if you can't open up to a trusted individual regarding the reality of your situation, then maybe it's because you're afraid of the truth.
1. Always remember, if it must be held in secrecy "It ain't right!"
2. The truth shall set you free, don't be held in bondage through your own self-made prison of perception but free yourself into reality!